- Doesn't have a TV to entertain 4 kids all day?
- Actually 'plays' with their kids to keep them 'entertained'?
- Doesn't go out for supper every night of the week?
- Actually makes meals for my family....
- Eats with their kids.
I all but got the 'Mother of the Year' award when this person found out we have 4 kids and NO TV!
Them: "How in the world do you entertain 4 kids?"
Me: "Uh, we play games, read books, play with toys, do projects...."
Them: "Oh, so you run a daycare 'school'?"
Me: "Well, some days it feels like it with 4 kids, but no. I do those things with just my own children."
Them: "Wow! That's incredible! You must eat out alot, if you do all that with them."
Me: "Actually we don't eat out too often. I probably go thru drive-thru once a week. We don't eat out with all 4 kids too often. So I cook supper for my family every night!"
Them: "Unbelievable. You are a "Wonder Mom"!! Can I have you come speak to some other Mom's I know?"
By this time I'm getting pretty annoyed by this person. I must admit, I did get a little 'puffed up', by being dubbed as "Super Mom" of the year. Yet I really don't do anything so out of the ordinary. Or at least I don't think so. Isn't it normal to play with your kids, make them food....?
I'm not writing this to get applauded for 'all' that I do for my kids. Because to me it's just part of being a mother (and its something I love to do). I know at times I grumble about the never ending laundry, or the mess that kids make.. yet deep down I really don't mind. I'm just sad that for some, this is not the case. What a sad, sad day it is, when your kids are actually another 'job' for you!
Arent' we thankful for moms that just do what moms are suppose to, without thinking they are doing anything out of the ordinary. You are doing a great job!
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